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True Hijrah?

A dimension of Hijrah happens discreetly in the heart, and eventually reflects on one’s behaviour and relationship with the rest of the world.

This is the type of Hijrah mentioned in the Prophet’s statement: migrating “away from what God has forbidden” not just physically by moving to a new place, but also spiritually and ethically, by choosing good over evil and ethics over corruption, and pledging to withstand the tribulations of struggling to stay on that path for life.

This implies being knowledgeable and mindful of God’s commands and prohibitions in the Quran and Sunnah, being strong enough to control one’s urges, being aware of the world around us, and seeking to rise in rank in the sight of God by constantly working to be a better person and a better Muslim.

Obviously this is something we could all do every day, and it’s not a coincidence that the Prophet mentioned good manners –sparing people the harm of tongue and hand- in conjunction with Hijrah in this hadith.

Five Important Areas for a True Hijrah

To attain true Hijrah, here are the five areas we have to work on:


A weak faith is the first enemy of a prospect immigrant. The first immigrants would have never left all their possessions behind and migrated unless they had faith as solid as mountains in God’s words and His prophet’s leadership. Like them, we should work on strengthening our faith to be able to pull away from what God has forbidden.


Our second enemy on the path of Hijrah is ignorance. Only with good knowledge could our faith see us through the trials and tests of staying on the straight path.

This knowledge should not be limited to religious information only, but should also include modern sciences and arts, history, philosophy, world news, other cultures and other religions. Muslims had a glorious civilization only when they knew the true meaning of knowledge.

Acts of worship

The lifeline of the soul is its connection to its Creator.

Worship not only brings us closer to God and supplies us with essential strength, resolve and tranquility, but also humbles us enough to see we’re only creatures like the rest of the creation, and that we have to maintain an ethical relationship with the universe and other people.

While migrating away from what God has forbidden, we have to have a new destination to migrate to, and that destination is determined by the degree of our closeness to Him through worship.


The Quran describes eloquently the different types of human desire “nafs”, and it is the responsibility of each of us to discover which type they belong to and follow the Quranic wisdom on how to deal with its tricks.

Controlling one’s urges and desires is detrimental to how much success in this life one achieves as a migrant to God.


A person who is full of great concepts and no deeds to prove it is a loser.

Unless we can “walk the talk” there would be no hope for us to strengthen our will to reach our goals and our resistance to distractions.

Unless our Islamic ethical system is apparent through our everyday behaviors and manners, there is no hope for us to be true Muslims either according to the Prophet’s hadith. For what good is it to veil, pray and fast then steal, lie and gossip?

When the Prophet begins by describing a Muslim as someone who is well mannered, he is actually reminding us that Islam is a practical code of ethics not just a set of spiritual concepts.

In short, a true immigrant is an ethical, well-mannered and pious Muslim, and that is what we should all strive to be everyday of our lives.

An article by Sahar El-Nadi

Freelance Writer – Egypt

True Meaning of Hijrah – Onislam.Net

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